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Divorcing parents need to be alert to their children’s feelings

When parents divorce, there are a number of legal issues that must be resolved regarding their children. One of the most important things to work out is the child custody agreement. And while parents and their attorneys typically work together to create reasonable terms and a feasible custody schedule, it’s often the children whose lives are impacted the most.

And the changes that are forthcoming after a divorce can leave a child feeling unhappy and apprehensive. As such, parents must understand the concerns and emotions of their children and help them make the very challenging transition to their new circumstances.

If you are a divorcing parent, it can be very helpful to observe your children’s behavior so you can get clues to their mental and emotional states. Do any of your children seem sad or angry? If so, ask them to tell you what is wrong.

Listen carefully to their responses and let your child know that you understand how he or she feels. Also, allow your children time to work through their emotions before starting to offer advice on how to make things better.

Parents can help make things easier for their children by developing a consistent routine. This means creating a schedule that accommodates their needs as well as yours. A good schedule will also provide plenty of opportunities for your children to spend time with each parent.

A divorce can become very contentious, especially when trying to settle child-related issues. But remember, your primary focus should be on making sure that every decision is made with the best interests of your children in mind. And having the assistance of an experienced family law attorney can be very beneficial. An attorney can help you create a parenting plan that includes an effective child custody schedule.


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